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by Motivation & Sales Expert, Jim Cathcart

In the February 2011 issue of Acoustic Guitar magazine Ruth Parry wrote an article called “Making A Connection: Ten tips for engaging an audience.” It is an excellent article, especially if you are a musical performer…and…

It is ALSO an excellent article if you are a public speaker or any kind of presenter/entertainer. Ruth has isolated ten excellent steps for connecting with any group. Here they are. (Go to her article for the full treatment.)

Acoustic Guitar: Make a Connection

1. Look people in the eye and smile.

2. Tell a story.

3. Be a good observer.

4. Include special announcements and thank yous.

5. Get people singing or clapping. (involve them)

6. Satisfy children’s curiosity. (or shy observers’)

7. Ask for input.

8. Throw a change-up.

9. Make ‘em laugh.

10. Play with passion.

Contact me if you need some coaching or insight into speaking with confidence. 800-222-4883  info@cathcart.com

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by Motivation Expert, Jim Cathcart

“Profiling”

What do you think of when you hear that word? Racial discrimination or intelligent decision making?

The media has demonized this concept over the past decade or so. They’ve made it popular to believe that one should never use profiling as part of decision making. I say, that is a foolish point of view. Absurd in fact.

Profiling; the act of identifying the patterns of difference that separate individuals into general groupings, is a vital life skill. I said “vital”, meaning that we cannot get through life without it. It is as natural and useful as thought itself.

When you look at a forest, it is in your best interest to distinguish between deer and bears, squirrels and rats, rabbits and weasels. That’s the only way you’ll know the appropriate reaction to each: threat or not. The same process takes place as you walk through a crowd in a public place. You identify the people who look threatening and those who don’t. And you should do this. It is in your best interest to do so.

Security personnel at political events have to use profiling to speed their identification of threats. If they looked at the bulk of the crowd in the same way they looked at the scary looking people then much time would be wasted and threats might be identified only after it was too late to deter them. The same applies to you and me.

Everyday intelligence demands that we develop the habit of identifying patterns, “profiles” if you will. The more we recognize patterns in behavior, in appearance, in language use, and in movement, then the more we will know about who to move toward and who to avoid. Our schools teach us to recognize patterns in all parts of life, mathematics/grammar/physics, so that we can predict where the threats and opportunities will be.

So, let’s get over this hyper-sensitivity to the concept of Profiling. It is the only efficient way to use our time, attention and resources wisely in any situation. Now, having said that, I also want to acknowledge that just because you look like you’re carrying a gun or angry at the world doesn’t mean that it’s so. So, even though I might identify you as a “likely” threat it doesn’t justify my treating you as an actual threat, convicted before found guilty. But it totally justifies me in paying closer attention to you until I’m sure that you’re not a threat.

The essence of intelligence is making distinctions, noticing more. So let’s encourage our security personnel, our law enforcement officers, our military and even each other to use our Profiling skills to the optimum, while remembering that appearances aren’t realities. They are simply indicators of likely realities.

Every person in America is innocent until proven guilty under the law and that is how it should remain. So, if you belong to a minority that has a track record of violence or crime, then I sympathize with your dilemma, but I’m still going to be more cautious around you than I am around others. It is a reality of life that how we look and what we do sends messages to others as to what we are probably like. Our choices tell others what to expect from us.

And now I have a personal request. Last week I traveled from Barcelona to Los Angeles. In doing so I went through several security check points. One of them involved a full body pat-down, the intimate and intrusive new procedure that is getting so many people outraged. Well, count me among them. If I had behaved in a threatening way, shown any evidence of belligerence or threat then I’d say, check me out thoroughly. But since I was randomly selected without the use of intelligent Profiling, then give me the treatment that is justified based upon my appearance, credentials and behavior. As a multi-million-mile frequent traveler on multiple airlines with plenty of credentials to identify myself, I think that less groping is needed to eliminate me as a threat. Let’s change the policies that our TSA officers have to follow. Let them single out the likely threats and treat the rest of us with a bit more dignity and respect. It will save them time and keep us safe.

Notice more.

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by Jim Cathcart, Motivation Expert

Here are some quotes that you are welcome to use in your own publications. All we request is that you clearly show your source (Jim Cathcart) and, when appropriate, you provide a link to our website: http://Cathcart.com. We hope you enjoy them.

HERE ARE SOME QUOTES FROM JIM CATHCART THAT YOU ARE WELCOME TO SHARE:

Cathcart on Relationship Intelligence®:

“The more intelligently you choose, create and grow the right relationships the greater your success will be. Relationship Intelligence® will have more impact on your life that IQ or even EQ.”

Cathcart on Embracing Change:

“Change comes from you or to you. Either way, your business doesn’t advance until you do. Learn to re-examine your thinking, your skills and your goals every day. Become the person who would attract the results you seek.”

Cathcart on Intelligent Motivation:

“Self motivation means getting yourself to do what needs to be done whether you feel like it or not. That is what separates  the achievers from the followers.”

Cathcart on High-Value Relationships:

“Your life is a series of relationships. The higher the percentage of High-Value Relationships, the greater your prospects for success. Turn each of your relationships into a High-Value Relationship.”

Cathcart on Strategy:

“To embrace change and sustain growth, people require the right: Mindset, Skillsets and Systems.

All of these must grow from the Strategic Purpose of the organization.”

Cathcart on Leadership:

“If you can’t lead yourself, you are not ready to lead others. All leadership must begin with self leadership.”

Cathcart on Public Speaking

“In speaking it is not the speaker, the presentation nor the message that matters most.

What matters most is: The Value The Audience Will Get By Listening To And Applying Your Message”

Cathcart on Sales & Service:

“The purpose of selling is to build profitable relationships. Without relationships there are only transactions and every day is just as hard as the one before it. With stronger sales relationships every day will be easier, more profitable and more fun!”

Cathcart on Growth:

“Nature never stands still, Neither can a business. A business is a living system. We must continually grow as people, as an organization and in our capacity to serve our constituents. When we stop growing we start to rot.”

Cathcart on Customer Loyalty:

“Customer loyalty is something you should Give rather than merely seek to recieve. It is best earned by staying loyal to your customers over time even when they don’t seem loyal to you. Then they always feel connected with you.”

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by Jim Cathcart

All this week I’ll be guest hosting a local radio show, The Business of Life on KKZZ AM1400 in Ventura, California. This “drive-time” show belongs to Coach Ron Tunick and I’m guest hosting while he’s on vacation. You can tune in online if you are not in the area. It’s from 4pm to 6pm Pacific time and here’s the link.

The Business of Life with guest host Jim Cathcart

There is an exciting line-up of guests joining me this week.

Dr. Terry Paulson, author of The Optimism Advantage

Dr. Nido Qubein, Chairman of Great Harvest Bread & President of High Point University

Dr. Tony Alessandra, author of The Platinum Rule, Chairman of Online Assessment Center

Tony Hseih, CEO of Zappos

Nance Guilmartin, author of The Power of Pause & Healing Conversations

Jason Vanderpal, product manager for Guitar Center, former GM of Hollywood Guitar Center

Mark Sanborn, author of The Encore Effect, The Fred Factor & It Doesn’t Take A Title To Be A Leader

And, a surprise guest who called in and then agreed to stay for the hour, Scott McKain! Author of All Business is Show Business and The Collapse of Distinction.

This is “Life Skills Week” and we will be talking about specific things you can do to make your life more rewarding and productive. Please call in and listen with friends!

And when Coach gets back on June 14th, I’ll be interviewing Darren Hardy, publisher of SUCCESS magazine. Darren’s new book The Compound Effect will be the focus of our interview. Tune in!

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by Jim Cathcart

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The 101 Leaders InstituteProsperity Seminar Series” featured Patricia Fripp, CSP, CPAE on January 23, 2010 at the beautiful Sherwood Country Club in Thousand Oaks, California. Her topic was Presentation Skills and she Wowed the audience, as expected!

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The amazing Miss Fripp not only taught, but also practiced the techniques and strategies that have allowed her to reach the absolute top of the field of professional speaking. She is:

  • Past President of the National Speakers Association and its first female president,
  • a Certified Speaking Professional, CSP
  • an inductee into the Professional Speakers Hall of Fame, CPAE
  • a Cavett Award winner
  • a regular presenter on many of the most prestigious programs in the country
  • and a speech & sales presentation trainer to celebrities, politicians, and corporate executives around the world.
  • She has delivered thousands of speeches in every conceivable setting over a speaking career that spans more than thirty years.

Some of her key points, as remembered by the attendees, include:

Focus on what the audience will get, not on what you will tell them.

Reduce your “I” count, talk about them not about you.

Structure Frees you, it doesn’t “freeze” you. Organize your information into a logical flow.

Use your technology, don’t let it use you. Learn how to use PowerPoint and your other tools well.

The packed audience was engaged from beginning to end of this 3 hour program. Host Jim Cathcart, president of the 101 Leaders Institute and also a past president of the National Speakers Association, said, “I’ve known Patricia Fripp for over 30 years and, of the thousands of speakers I know NOBODY is a more dedicated student of their craft than Patricia. She is amazingly dedicated to learning: story telling, script writing, speech craft, stage techniques, choreography, voice control, writing techniques, comedy, acting and performance. There is no better presentation skills coach on Earth! And I defy you to prove me wrong.”

Fripp & Cathcart with Bob Hope's chief comedy writer, author Gene Perrett

Fripp & Cathcart with Bob Hope's chief comedy writer, author Gene Perrett

Attendees at the Prosperity Seminar (the 4th in the 7 event annual series) included; screenwriters, business owners, executives, attorneys, CPAs, entrepreneurs, comedy writers, radio personalities, authors, professional speakers, consultants, civic leaders, students, hoteliers, and club managers.

The next seminar is scheduled for February 25th at Westlake Village Inn. The featured speaker is Don Hutson, coauthor of The One Minute Entrepreneur, one of the nation’s leading sales trainers. His topic is “Selling Value over Price”.

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